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  • hansolo@lemm.eetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldPoor guy
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    2 days ago

    This is 100% correct in high detail.

    What’s amazing is that many other African countries have the same or a similar rule. And Starlink operates on those counties, meaning that he is willing to engage with the rules-as-official-bribes system. It’s that he wants to try and name the SA government look like they’re prioritizing bribes over “improving” things for the average person. He has demonstrated it’s entirely personal.

    Meanwhile, Amazon and EuTelSat are going to have a non-politicized alternative to market before he ever gets his head out of his ass, and lap him in that largest market on the continent.


















  • hansolo@lemm.eetoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml21F... am I crazy over jealousy?
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    4 days ago

    You’re not crazy. And the things we’ve experienced inform how we go through life.

    In addition to communication, being willing to understand a mis-match in how you or he feels about certain actions is also important. My spouse used to be overly jealous, especially of my time spent doing anything that wasn’t at home or work. It got to the point of being uncomfortable and disruptive, so I expressed my feelings, and she had no idea that what she was doing, which seemed perfectly rational to her, was making it impossible for me to do things outside the home. Took her a while to cool down, but she eventually understood that there’s a happy medium that works for everyone.

    Also, a dude in his 20s liking some thirsttrap on IG is just cringe, but not really much more than disappointing IMO. Maybe he was drunk, or with a friend and it was something other than him at home, alone, clear-headed, clicking like. Maybe give him some benefit of the doubt on that.

    You’ll get there, and asking for help is the first step.