What healed me, was being mistaken for my dad on the phone. And my dad’s got a nice voice, so mine can’t be too bad.
A lot of people tell me my voice is deep and im always like, its not that deep. Then i hear it recorded and realize how deep it is compared to other people.
When you speak, the voice is fed back to you through bones, so lower frequencies are dominant.
Did you mean to say higher frequencies?
No, it’s the lower frequencies that make you sound deeper.
So if lower frequencies are dominant through bone they should make your voice sound deeper to you, not higher pitched.
Yes they should. From the top comment it appears as if the commenter has a difference experience.
I managed to inadvertently cure myself of this problem by recording a lot of music in my early 20’s. I became accustomed to hearing what my voice actually sounds like and got a lot better at controlling it as a result.
Those first few months of recording were rough though, lol. I hated listening to all of my recordings.
I’ve had instant feedback on my headset for years now and it actually sounds weird not to hear my own voice back.
Something something bass perception. Took me a lot of training to not sound like a twink all the time.