• fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    14 days ago

    damn didn’t realize yall would be so hostile

    same feeling as: “wow very judgemental community here” lmao

  • Miles O'Brien@startrek.website
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    14 days ago

    “or should I say us 🇮🇹”

    “Sopranos was my favorite show”

    Oof. Imagine saying “roots was my favorite show so it makes sense my great great great grandparent was black”

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      13 days ago

      I have Italian ancestry and I’ve always found these guys to be cringe, but I also get why they do it . Many people in the United States yearn for meaning and interpersonal connection in their lives. “Being an Italian” provides a prepackaged, very commercialized possibility of community with little effort required - you’re just born to it, so instant acceptance, right?

      The reality is often less Soprano’s chic and more “nonno and nonnina were illiterate farmhands who moved to the US for a better life. Nonno died from mystery cancer and all of nonnina’s bones dissolved after birthing her 15th child at 24. Now chew nonnina’s birthday cake for her”.